♀ What can you do?

First of all, it is important to press ahead with a precise explanation of the causes. In the first instance, it is sufficient to see a doctor (family doctor of confidence) or a gynaecologist. Until then, it is advisable not to have intercourse and not to introduce any foreign bodies into the vagina, as this can cause further irritation of the damaged mucous membrane and can also greatly promote possible ascending infections through manipulation (e.g. cervicitis – inflammation of the cervix or pelvic inflammation – inflammation of the fallopian tubes).

If one suspects a bacterial imbalance, one could also examine the intimate hygiene measures and switch to a soap-free intimate washing lotion whose acidic pH supports that of the vagina. Until the exact cause of the burning sensation has been determined, one should refrain from buying any medication from the pharmacy. Women who know the signs of a vaginal fungus from previous antibiotic treatment can of course make an exception and try to cure the fungus on their own (in consultation with the pharmacist).

Supporting measures could be women’s mantle tea or a chamomile bath. If bacterial infections are detected, an antibiotic is prescribed by the appropriate doctor. If it is an oestrogen deficiency in older women, an ointment containing oestrogen can be applied locally or – if the treatment of other symptoms of the menopause is desired at the same time – an oestrogen tablet can be recommended.

If the person affected is generally known to have a low lubrication (“getting wet”), a suitable lubricant must be found in consultation with the gynaecologist or other measures must be considered (psychological problems). You can find more detailed information on this topic at Insufficient vaginal lubrication (lubrication) – therapy and prognosis Those affected could be supported by drinking tea or a camomile bath. If bacterial infections are detected, an antibiotic is prescribed by the appropriate doctor.

If it is an oestrogen deficiency in older women, an ointment containing oestrogen can be applied locally or – if the treatment of other symptoms of the menopause is desired at the same time – an oestrogen tablet can be recommended. If the person affected is generally known to have a low lubrication (“getting wet”), a suitable lubricant must be found in consultation with the gynaecologist or other measures must be considered (psychological problems). You can find more detailed information on this topic at Insufficient vaginal lubrication (lubrication) – therapy and prognosis

♂ What can you do?

If the man can attribute the burning sensation to the use of certain substances or practices, it is important to refrain from these (for example, changing lubricants, etc.). It is also important to communicate with the sexual partner whether the other person has any known sexually transmitted diseases or similar symptoms. First and foremost, however, it is important to consult a doctor and openly describe your complaints.

In the meantime, the person concerned can use correct hygienic measures (use pH-neutral soap, no aggressive alkaline solutions with an increased pH value!) and, if a sexually transmitted disease (STD) is suspected, either stop practising sexual intercourse or use a condom during sex. Manipulation of the penis or the application of conventional over-the-counter ointments and creams should be avoided. Due to their perfumes and additives, these could only further irritate the pre-damaged skin and, even if handled incorrectly, cause a re-infection (a second infection).